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As the Music Fades....

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In some few hours 2017 will be gone with the wind and I must confess that it was a remarkable journey with you. It was the rebirth of this blog this year and I am really grateful to you for the visits, subscription, comments and shares. You are the reason I'd be stepping into 2018 with a flame of continuity and consistency. Here we are, the last song and I hope that after this music stops, it's every components - the genre, the notes, the beat, the rhythm, the lyrics, the tone etc - would leave a residue that could lighten-up the fire you need to burn through 2018. Source: Google Images This song might not have been a hit song, it might not have had the right lyrics, it might not have been recorded in the best studio, it might have been produced by some rookie-producer, could have possibly had the 'wackest' artist and then he featured some guy with the most horrible voice you've heard, you could even be wondering how it got on your playlist but it's just

Come a lil' Closer!

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Heyo peeps... Been minutes since y'all heard from me and really I must apologise for my long absence. It's been rough lately but hell yeah! 💪 Slim is back 😉. I missed you all, who missed me? It was my birthday yesterday 💃 and i must say I am really grateful to y'all for making it a special one. I've got much love for y'all😍. #thankGodfor24 Inspired by my blogger friend Olufunke, (y'all should check her blog out by the way, you can thank me later) this post is to let you in on some of the things you don't know yet about me. With this TMI tag as a form of questionnaire, I'm on the hot seat and would answer the questions as best as I can. Source: Pinterest Shall I.... White shorts and a shirt. Hmmmn....I've really really liked some people. oh yeah...not one. 6ft 1in (i feel i'm taller). 127.9lbs (wasn't comfortable with kg...convert it to kg yourself...lol).  No. No. Denzel Washington and Viola Davis. Source: Google

9 things you need to fulfill purpose.

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Hello friends, it's been a minute. Happy Sunday!! Recently, I was under a ministration at the National Transformation Conference at House on the Rock, Enugu by Pastor Shedrach Gentle. It was a deep message on fulfillment of purpose and I'm certain that it'd be really transforming if I share a highlight of the much revealing sermon. 4 The Lord said to me, 5 "Before I formed you in your mother's womb I chose you. Before you were born I set you apart. I appointed you to be a prophet to the nations." Jeremiah 1:4-5 "A man without purpose is like the world without the sun" Out of a lot that was said he gave 9 things you need to fulfill purpose. Source: Google Images Your Calling - Invitation “Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love.” ~Rumi Merriam-Webster defines “calling” as: “…a strong inner impulse toward a particular course of action especially when accompanied by conviction of divine influenc

Alas! Gossiping is now Life.

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There was once a time when we called a friend to a hideout or a secluded corner to talk about a third party, there was once a time when we consciously and intentionally talked down a third party in the face of people or someone who held the person in high esteem, there was a time when people's stare and gaze was because there is something striking about your presence that moment. The reverse is just the case now! It's almost always certain that you are being stared at in the office, school or apartment cos you have been a subject of gossip, we don't need to be any conscious or intentional, it's almost reflex to talk a third party down not caring about endangering the person's relationship with the discussants, gossiping is no more discreet, it's just very normal that it can be done right under the subject's nose. Gossiping is now a language! "The only thing worse about not being talked about is not being talked about " - Oscar Wilde. They

My Recent Playlist.

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#tgif lovelies Recently, I have grown to become tired of my phone...not that it gives me issues but I have used it for so long (about 1 year and 5 months) and it sickens me sometimes, besides the windows phone and the windows store (especially if the OS is windows 8.1) is 'so dead' compared to the google play store.... I just need a change - something like the Nokia 6, sorry I mean the iPhone 8 or iPhone X would do 😉 Well back to the subject matter, today's post was inspired by a subscriber and a friend's post; "What's in my mailbox?" and though I plan to share mine one of these days, I have been stuck to one of the things that still makes my phone feel wanted and that is my playlist. My playlist could be boring to you and I apologise for that, it's not cos I'm a PK (preacher's kid) or a Christian, I really love music as it is the very perfect vessel (alongside art) through which we convey humankind's relationship with it

The worst things we were told about Youth Service.

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Recently, I laid on my bed and reminisced my service year so far. With just a month and some couple of days to go all I envisage is me back to work as a sales consultant or me serving in an African Union member state as a youth volunteer. As I laid thinking over the years gone by as a corp member serving this country(Nigeria), a lot of things came to mind and interestingly one of them was 'The worst things I ever heard about the youth service'. I had graduated in 2015 and wouldn't be mobilized until the end of 2016, luckily for me I got a job and didn't have to roam about or figure out what to do and so when NYSC(National Youth Service Corp) came creeping it was normal to hear things even when you didn't ask for opinions and trust me people always had one or two. There were a lot and I would share as many as I remember then you will decide which is the worst......Leggo!! The first thing I was told was that I don't need NYSC and that it was crap. Ju

The Red Days! - Mistake #1

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Happy new month friends and #tgif. Just like I promised in the post - The Red Days! , I'd be sharing some of my mistakes that have made me go for days and even months without money, days that I call Red days. This post marks the beginning of the series and here I'd be sharing the first mistake - 'Spending the money before you get the alert!' I never knew this was becoming a part of me until recently when my Red days grew into months, and while I thought one of those sulky days on how to get out of my mess I discovered that I was in the habit of spending money I don't yet have especially on things I don't really need. I was buying things on debt! The financial term for this is OVERDRAFT which according to investopedia.com is an extension of credit  from a lending institution when an account reaches zero. An overdraft allows the individual to continue withdrawing money even if the account has no funds in it. Well, I didn't need to go to the bank for tha

My Kinda Weekend!

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Happy new week folks, I hope the weekend was great? These past few days have been transforming and I have a strong conviction that all my limitations have been wrecked - I couldn't have sat at the feet of a pulpited divine, veteran minister and renowned preacher, Bishop T. D Jakes and remain the same. The weekend was also topped with 'party rice' and 'swallow' my first here in Enugu and in a while since I left Lagos last year and then Chelsea beat Everton with Morata on the score sheet...wooh! Plus Floyd Mayweather beat McGregor....hehehe #Eyanmayweather. It was my kinda weekend 😍. I had an urge to share some of the points I scribbled during the finale of the Spirit Life Conference themed EMERGE. I'm certain that reading this would be beneficial to you.......you can thank me later on 😉 Bishop T. D Jakes titled his message ' My battle is my bread ' and took is text from Numbers 14 vs 1 to 9 where the Israelites grumbled about the wilderness an

The Red Days!

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I tag broke days 'RED DAYS!', when I'm approached to help with funds and I have nothing on me, I'd normally say 'I'm sorry man, I'm red'. It's not usually funny on Red days and I for one dread those days cos your natural disposition to things crashes and there is this stranger that occupies the body you once occupied - everything just becomes different and most times the next thing you result to is faking everything....who carries an 'I'm broke face around, huh?' As a young adult, I have experienced a lot of Red days and yes I get advise from the 'affordable financial managers & advisers' 😏 that stylishly stroke you when they know you're broke, I get tips from the internet on how to not be broke and i come across articles on social media dealing on the subject matter but sadly I keep waking up to red days. Recently, I found myself graduating into red months and not even days.....pathetic I know, that's wh

Parents and Honour!

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Hello, I hope your midweek is going on well? Mine has been great! I was out for a training -  yes, the one that made me blog again, lol. Yesterday, I was at a corpers' forum for House on the Rock corp members in Enugu and at the forum we discussed 'HONOUR'. The speaker, Dr. Babatunde the president of Rock Corpers said a lot and I wasn't paying attention (🙈  I was typing yesterday's post actually) I think that should pass for dishonouring the president, right? As I was busy with the post, my ears captured some things and I can remember recalling these things and falling into deep thoughts. One of the things that struck me was that obeying our parents do not necessarily mean we honour them. There is more to honouring our parents than doing everything they want us to. There are little actions and gestures that go a long way to show how much we honour our parents. Some are from broken homes and take sides with a parent thereby neglecting the other as far

Today!

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After days, weeks, months and years of not posting anything on my blog and not intending to create a post as at when I woke up this morning; it even feels weird typing this right now but alas! I am posting again. I'm dusting the sheets, I'm cleaning table top, I'm emptying the cabinet and getting off the cobwebs. It feels like opening up the window and letting the morning ray in, shining on your face and making you feel alive, it feels leaving home for so long and then coming back home after years and you realize that you've missed something that meant a lot to you. This feeling I can't comprehend, it's more than a mixed feeling. Did I really give up on this? Was I really passionate about this when I started? Do I know what I'm really doing right now? Questions scrolling in my head.....but I'm doing this today just because of one thing. I'm doing this cos I need to, because have been asked to and not because I want to. I started a trainin