Being Single

To be single means to be separate, unique and whole. Many people have confused being single with being alone. When we are truly single we won’t be dependent on anyone to survive. Movies have become a source of inspiration to many and they feel what happens in movies should happen to them too and so they rush into relationships when they are not yet whole and dependent. Love is not being emotionally dependent on someone, instead of getting or thinking of relationship get single. Never let there be someone you can’t do without.

Singleness is a state to be pursued, not a state to be avoided, it is when you get to a realization that you are whole and unique that you can get into a relationship where you won’t be emotionally dependent. You should not be an emotional liege. Until you achieve being single, don’t give yourself away, if you do, you are giving yourself as a liability. You should give yourself as an asset.

Stop looking for someone to complete you, you are complete in Christ. When you are consumed in that completeness then you can give yourself as an asset.

God’s gift to the Single 

• Gift of His image. (Gen 1 ²⁶ )
•  Gift of function- God functions through words.
•  God’s presence.
•  Gift to work.
•  Gift to cultivate.
•  Gift of protection.
•  Gift of His word- It keeps relationship. (Never go into a relationship without God’s revelation.